As you know most of my fishing is done sitting on the pier in Pt Bruce. When I can't get out in a boat with someone, that's my go to spot for sentimental reasons. That's where I learned to fish when I was 4. Until we moved out west when I was 15, I spent many a summer sitting on the creek bank at the Happy Hollow campsite my grandparents had catching fish. Then when I was old enough, I was permitted to go out to the pier. When I moved back to Ontario in Nov of 2008, there were 3 things I was looking forward too. A pizza from Bondi's in St. Thomas. Fish and chips from YOUR Fish and chips in St. Thomas, both I got done almost right away, and fishing from the pier in Pt Bruce which had to wait until the spring of 2009.
While sitting on the pier generally isn't as quiet and peaceful, that's part of it. Sitting there, listening to the stories, taunting and teasing those you know well, and vice versa. It's helping those who show up who have never fished it before and don't have the "proper" gear by sharing your experience, and if necessary and able, giving them the things they'll need to have a better chance of catching a fish, especially if they're little kids, or have brought some kids fishing. (ie giving someone a pickerel rig, a sinker, and maybe some minnows if you have enough to do so. Now that I have my own minnow net, I just catch minnows for people once I have enough for myself) and of course the scenery doesn't hurt either. The eagles when they make an appearance. The air force (the flock of geese that are always there at sun up) The terns almost laughing at you when you miss one. The boats going out or coming in, even if they've come close to the pier and caught someone's line and been a bit ignorant about it. It's all part of the experience, as are the people, whether they've come to visit you on the pier to pick your brain, or just see how you've done, or how you're doing, and of course as I relayed in a recent post, those who come to BS you and then, there are those on the beach. Even though a lot of times I go, I'll see the same people, at the same time, every time I go it's different.
For quite a number of years my wife would let me go fishing, but she wouldn't let me bring home what I caught because she doesn't eat fish due to an experience she had when she was a kid. For years I'd catch it and then give it away to others on the pier. Then I used an argument she understood. I told her I DO eat fish, then told her what the price to buy it was. Then I told her about limits, and "gifting" and explained to her that over the course of the spring and summer, me going to catch it myself, then bringing home what I catch to put in the freezer I can put more in the freezer, and for cheaper, than I could buying it
AND with my background in the kitchens working as a chef before I was a truck driver, I can bread/batter it or do any number of other recipe's I know for fish, myself, again, for cheaper than what it costs to buy the frozen fish sticks etc. at ANY grocery store.
Because I gave away so many fish for years before she finally allowed me to bring home what I caught, if it was worth bringing home, that's why now, when someone offers fish to me, what I call "bucket fishing" I don't often say no. To me it's just karma paying back my generosity to others, then, and now, as I still give fish to others, ie my parents, son, neighbors and periodically, as I've done the past two times I've gone, to someone on the pier when I've only caught 2-3 smallish ones, and haven't caught enough for a meal.
My wife still usually refuses to eat it, but every once in a while, even though it's like pulling teeth, I can get her to try some, but she always says, with a smile, that she'll NEVER admit she liked it and then once she's tried it to "humor" me, it's like pulling teeth again to get her to try it again.